Why do we need pain?
\nWhen you accidentally bite your tongue, it’s hard to see “pain” as something positive.
\nThe same goes for a blister on your big toe. Who needs a throbbing foot?
\nBut what if you felt no pain? How often would you bite off bits of your tongue – or burn your backside in the bath?
\nPhysical pain is a marvelous alarm system that prevents further damage.
\nIt tells us: “You’d better change what you’re doing!”
\nEmotional pain gives us a similar message, eg. “You’d better change how you’re thinking!”
\nIt’s normal to get angry or jealous or a bit resentful – temporarily.
\nBut if those feelings become permanent the message may be:
\n“Don’t expect to control other people.”
\n“Don’t expect other people to behave like you.”
\n“Don’t depend on other people to make you happy!”
\nWhile we keep thinking the same thoughts, we keep feeling the same pain.
\n(And then we say “But I’m right!” Unfortunately being “right” doesn’t help!)
\nA blister on your foot is a message to change our shoes.
\nWith emotional pain, which feels like a blister on the brain, the message is usually to change our thinking.
\nWith both physical and emotional pain, when we keep doing the same thing, it keeps hurting!
\n(The Daily Guru, February 26, 2004)<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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